Happy Birthday Eric Dane! Celebrate Some of the Grey’s Anatomy Star’s Best Moments On and Off Screen as the Actor Turns 53 Today
Eric Dane is 53 today!
Long before we knew him as Grey’s Anatomy’s McSteamy, the actor starred on shows such as Saved by the Bell, Roseanne, Married with Children and more before getting his big break. Over the course of his decades-long career, he’s appeared in TV shows and movies such as Charmed, Valentine’s Day, Marley and Me, Countdown and, of course, Euphoria.
In his personal life, Dane has been married to actress Rebecca Gayheart since 2004. The pair, who share two children, filed for divorce in 2018 but reconciled seven years later. In April 2025, Dane revealed he had been diagnosed with ALS and is now using his platform to create awareness around the condition.
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Below, see some of the actor’s best on and offscreen moments as he celebrates his 53rd birthday today.
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Eric Dane’s Early Days
Eric Dane on ‘Saved by the Bell’. NBCEric William Dane was born in San Francisco on Nov. 9, 1972. The actor cut his teeth on iconic shows such as Saved by the Bell (above), Roseanne, The Wonder Years, Married with Children and more.
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Eric Dane Gets on ‘Charmed’
Alyssa Milano and Eric Dane.Photo 12 / Alamy Stock Photo
The actor first got our attention with his role as Dr. Wyatt Cooper on Gideon’s Crossing. However, it wasn’t until he took on the role of romantic and oh-so-charming media mogul Jason Dean — the love interest of Alyssa Milano’s character on Charmed — that things began to take off for Dane.
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Eric Dane and Alyssa Milano
Eric Dane with Alyssa Milano.Gregg DeGuire/WireImage
If you thought the chemistry you saw onscreen between Phoebe and Jason was strong, it’s because the pair were actually dating in real life. “I had a massive crush on Alyssa when I was 14,” Dane told Dax Shepard on Armchair Expert, revealing he was a fan of hers from Who’s the Boss?
“By the time I was 28 and we were dating, I wasn’t a child anymore and she was a person. And a lovely, wonderful person if I can add,” he revealed. “We dated for a little bit and she was obviously doing the show Charmed and she asked me to be on it. I ended up doing like 10 episodes.”
The actor the alluded to the fact that his time on the show got cut because the two broke up.
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Eric Dane Meets Rebecca Gayheart
Eric Dane and Rebecca Gayheart.Chris Weeks/WireImage
In 2003, Dane met his future wife, Rebecca Gayheart. The pair have been private about their early days, though he told Flaunt Magazine their courtship was pretty quick. “It’s probably one of the least interesting stories in the world. It went basically like this: ‘You wanna go out?’ ‘Yeah, sure.’ Ten months later, we were married.”
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Eric Dane and Rebecca Gayheart Get Married
Eric Dane and Rebecca Gayheart.Sylvain Gaboury/FilmMagic
The couple wed the following year on Oct. 29. As with much of their relationship, details of their wedding are not known to the public, except that they tied the knot in Las Vegas.
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Eric Dane and Rebecca Gayheart Become Parents
Rebecca Gayheart and Eric Dane.Jon Kopaloff/FilmMagic
On March 3, 2010, the couple welcomed their first baby, a daughter named Billie Beatrice. They would add to their family the following year with the birth of Georgia Geraldine on Dec. 28, 2011.
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Eric Dane and His Family
Eric Dane with his family.Jason LaVeris/FilmMagic
The family of four was pictured together at the Chrysalis Butterfly Ball in 2017.
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Eric Dane Becomes McSteamy
Eric Dane in Grey’s Anatomy.Vivian Zink/Disney General Entertainment Content via Getty
In 2006, Eric Dane joined Grey’s Anatomy, playing plastic surgeon, Dr. Mark Sloan. One particularly scintillating post-shower scene would see him dubbed as “McSteamy,” solidifying him as one of the most handsome TV hunks of all time.
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Eric Dane’s Addiction Struggles
Eric Dane, Grey’s Anatomy.Randy Holmes/Disney General Entertainment Content via Getty
The actor would be on the hit show for six seasons before his character tragically died from wounds sustained in a plane crash. Though the show was a career high, Dane revealed he was struggling with alcohol and painkiller addiction at same time.
Going into the show, he said on Armchair Expert, he was able to keep his relationship to alcohol under control: “I had my wits about me and I sort of knew what reality was and what reality wasn’t, and I was able to differentiate between the two, and I was able to sort of conceptualize what that was, keep it in its place, enjoy it, dip in every now and again and come back.”
But that eventually changed, he said: “If you take the whole eight years on ‘Grey’s Anatomy,’ I was f—– up longer than I was sober, and that’s when things started going sideways for me. [The attention] was overwhelming, and I think I just wanted to pretend that it wasn’t and that I was comfortable with it. Act like you’ve been there, but you haven’t been there.”
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Eric Dane Lands Euphoria
Eric Dane in ‘Euphoria’.Eddy Chen/HBO
With his addictions managed, Dane began working again, notably landing the role of Cal Jacobs on HBO’s Euphoria in 2019.
“I wanted to do something different. I felt like I had been doing the same thing in my career over and over again and I felt like it wasn’t allowing me to grow or stretch myself as an actor, as an artist,” he told Awards Radar.
“[I wanted to] really show that I wasn’t just a doctor on a hospital drama or captain of a naval destroyer. It’s a gift to be able to play a character like this, who is so complicated.”
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Eric Dane Separates from Rebecca Gayheart
Eric Dane with his family.Rebecca Gayheart/Instagram
In 2018, Gayheart filed for divorce from the actor after 14 years of marriage.
“After 14 years together we have decided that ending our marriage is the best decision for our family,” Dane said in a statement to PEOPLE at the time.
“We will continue our friendship and work as a team to co-parent our two beautiful girls as they are the most important thing in the world to us. We kindly ask that you respect our privacy during this time as we navigate the next phase of our lives.”
And it appears the pair kept their promise as Gayheart posted the above picture of the family’s 2022 vacation, writing, “This is us, family vacay 2022 🇫🇷🥳❣️”
Seven years after their initial split, Gayheart requested to dismiss her divorce from Dane in March 2025, according to court docs obtained by PEOPLE. Both parties signed off on the docs.
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Eric Dane, the Dad
Eric Dane with daughters Billie Beatrice and Georgia Geraldine.Axelle/Bauer-Griffin/FilmMagic)
In 2024, the actor, who played McGrath in Bad Boys: Ride or Die, walked the red carpet with his two daughters at the California premiere.
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Eric Dane is Diagnosed with ALS
Eric Dane.Good Morning America/Youtube
On April 10, 2025, Eric Dane revealed he had been diagnosed with amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (ALS).
“I have been diagnosed with ALS,” he told PEOPLE. “I am grateful to have my loving family by my side as we navigate this next chapter.”
On Sept. 29, Dane traveled to Washington, D.C. with the nonprofit organization I AM ALS, advocating for the reauthorization of ACT for ALS.
In a TikTok video shared by U.S. Rep. Eric Swalwell of California, Dane spoke about his ALS journey, stating, “ALS is the last thing they want to diagnose anybody with. So often, it takes all this time for these people to be diagnosed, well, then it precludes them from being a part of these clinical trials.”
“That’s why ACT for ALS is so so great, and it’s because it broadens the access for everybody.”
“I have two daughters at home. I want to see them, you know, graduate college, and get married and maybe have grandkids. You know, I want to be there for all that. So I’m going to fight to the last breath on this one,” the actor said.
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Eric Dane Appears on ‘Brilliant Minds’
Eric Dane with Zachary Quinto.Pief Weyman/NBC
Following his diagnosis, the actor continues to work and is using his talents to create more awareness about ALS.
On Oct. 20, Warner Bros revealed the actor will make an appearance on an upcoming episode of Brilliant Minds. In episode 9, Dane will play Matthew, a heroic firefighter who struggles to share his ALS diagnosis with his family, according to a press release.