Soap fans have been eagerly waiting for the moment when Xander Cook and Sarah Horton will finally mend their broken relationship on Days of Our Lives (DOOL). The sparks have always been undeniable, but the road to their reunion isn’t as simple as many would like. Paul Telfer, the actor behind Xander, recently revealed why Xander and Sarah’s reunion isn’t happening just yet and what needs to change before it can truly take place.

Xander and Sarah: A Love Story Stuck in Limbo

For DOOL fans, Xander and Sarah’s relationship has been full of ups and downs, filled with passion, betrayal, and plenty of drama. Their love story is certainly a rollercoaster, but as Paul Telfer pointed out, their relationship needs more than just a quick fix to become sustainable again.

Telfer explained that while he and co-star Linsey Godfrey (who plays Sarah) absolutely love working together and share great chemistry, Xander and Sarah’s personal growth is essential before they can have a lasting reunion. “Xander and Sarah need new coping mechanisms,” Telfer stated, acknowledging that the old patterns of lies and violence simply won’t work anymore. “Until they resolve those issues, reconciliation can’t stick,” he added.

The couple’s issues are deep-rooted and will take time to unravel, meaning fans will have to wait a little longer to see their reunion play out on screen.

The Road to Reconciliation: What Needs to Change?

Fans of Xander and Sarah have been waiting for the moment they would put their differences aside and embrace each other once more. However, Telfer’s insight into their relationship makes it clear that a quick reconciliation wouldn’t do justice to the characters.

To get to a healthier and stronger relationship, both characters need significant growth.

Xander’s character, in particular, needs to address his tendency toward impulsive and sometimes violent behavior. Meanwhile, Sarah must confront her trauma and rebuild the trust that has been broken so many times. Only after both characters undergo this much-needed growth can their relationship truly heal.

This process will be a slow burn, but Telfer is eager for fans to see the journey unfold on screen.

What Telfer Learned From Soap Legends: Wisdom Beyond Acting

While Telfer has a deep understanding of the Xander-Sarah dynamic, he also took a moment to reflect on the lessons he’s learned throughout his long career on DOOL. Having worked alongside soap legends like John Aniston (Victor Kiriakis) and Drake Hogestyn (John Black), Telfer shared how much of their wisdom has shaped his approach to both acting and life.

He credited Aniston with teaching him the importance of “gravitas” and “efficiency” in his craft, while Hogestyn’s example of “generosity” and “work ethic” had a lasting impact. Telfer’s deep respect for these seasoned actors is clear, and their mentorship has certainly influenced how he approaches his role as Xander. For Telfer, their guidance extends beyond just acting—it’s about how to navigate a successful career and how to contribute meaningfully to the show’s success.

Working with DOOL’s Younger Generation: A Refreshing Change

While Telfer has learned a lot from the soap’s veteran stars, he’s also had to adapt to working with the younger actors, especially the child actors who play his onscreen daughter, Victoria. Initially, Telfer wasn’t fond of working with kids, but his perspective has changed thanks to his interactions with the new generation of DOOL talent.

“They look me right in the eye, they think I’m silly, and I can be silly with them,” Telfer admitted, revealing that the younger actors have brought a fresh energy to his work. He also joked about how much easier it is to act with Linsey Godfrey—his co-star who plays Sarah—saying, “Having Linsey as a partner makes it even better—she does the hard work, and I just swoop in and look like I know what I’m doing.

” Their dynamic off-screen enhances their chemistry onscreen, making them one of the most beloved pairs on the show.

Looking to the Future: What’s Next for Xander and Sarah?

With DOOL now celebrating its 60th anniversary, the show is in a prime position to delve into new character developments and relationships.

For Xander and Sarah, their reunion is just a matter of time, but it’s clear that the show is taking a more thoughtful and realistic approach to their story. Rather than rushing into a reunion, the writers are focusing on character growth and emotional depth. This slow-burn approach will likely pay off in the long run, providing a more satisfying resolution to their complicated love story.

Telfer’s reflections reveal how important it is to honor the show’s legacy while also embracing new challenges. He’s clearly excited about where Xander’s journey is headed and hopes fans will continue to support the character’s evolution.

Patience Will Pay Off: A Stronger Xander and Sarah

It may be frustrating for fans of DOOL to wait for Xander and Sarah to finally come together, but as Paul Telfer reminds us, relationships take work, especially in soap operas.

Growth, healing, and resolution are key to any successful reconciliation, and these characters will need time to work through their issues.

While fans eagerly anticipate the moment Xander and Sarah can finally reconcile, it’s clear that the journey will be worth the wait. True love is never easy, and the road ahead for these two will be filled with challenges, personal growth, and emotional breakthroughs.

But when they finally do reunite, it will be stronger than ever, and their fans will be ready to celebrate their hard-earned happily-ever-after.

So, stay tuned, because Xander and Sarah’s saga is far from over—and the best is yet to come.